Can you remember that overwhelming, knees-weak, dizzy, startling moment when you felt “It” for the first time?
It might’ve been a whole collection of moments, or maybe you woke up one day and realized: oh man, I’m in love!
Now, the time you spend together involves chores. Sex has become routine and sporadic.
If this is starting to sound like your relationship, then the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed.
When couples first get together, everything is new and exciting. They overlook the little annoying things the other person does. However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, “You look beautiful,” they might hear “Why are you wearing that shirt?”.
The harsh reality is that in today’s society, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another.
Just thinking about that makes “commitment” seem scary. It seems that when relationships are faced with challenges, people quit trying.
It takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success. Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing. The “spark” has gone, leaving one or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.
People have extremely busy schedules and between work, family, the home, errands, and everything else going on, finding time for your partner can be difficult. The one thing that you never want to forget though is the following:
There is nothing more important than your relationship!
We polled over 100 experts to see what they say are the top reasons couples decide to split, and — believe it or not — communication problems came out on top as the number one reason relationships fail. Here are some of the other main issues that can cause relationships to fail:
Lack of individual identity – A codependent relationship is not healthy. When you don’t have your own interests or the opportunity to express yourself outside of coupledom you probably feel like you are drowning and don’t know why.
Not having a shared vision of success – Your idea of a weekend getaway is a cozy cottage in the woods; your partner wants to the hit the town and catch a game. He thinks it’s your job to cook and clean, but you disagree.
The intimacy disappears – Somewhere in a marriage there is a subtle change in the intimacy department. One person has an off day, there is a misunderstanding or someone doesn’t feel well. Then there’s the idea that he isn’t as romantic or she isn’t as sexual.
Unmet expectations – Somewhere written into a human’s genetic code lie the instruction that when a person isn’t happy, he or she is supposed to force his/her significant to make the changes required to make the unhappy person happy again. This usually takes the form of complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and/or bribing.
Finances and who does what – Opposites can attract but when two people are opposites in the financial department, divorce often ensues. Imagine the conflict if one is a saver and one is a spender. One is focused on the future while the other believes in living for today. One has no problem buying on credit, while the other believes in saving up for what one wants.
Healing and stengthening your relationship cannot start until you start to talk. Of course, it’s not enough to just talk a lot. While we don’t think talk is cheap in a relationship, it doesn’t cut it all by itself.
Learn how to get into the habit of listening to what your mate is saying. Not the kind of listening that you do when you go out or sit at the dinner table, but a different kind of listening.
When polling people about why their relationship failed, we found that one of the main responses is that the relationship was too predictable. When rebuilding a relationship, do not be afraid of new adventures and experiences.
Often people become too comfortable in their relationship and sitting around on the weekends, watching movies is about as exciting as it gets. Relearn how to ask your partner out. We even provide you with the perfect date ideas! It is crucial to a relationships that you two keep the fire alive by enjoying the act of dating.
If you already have found the love of your life, then and you owe it to yourself and your relationship to read our Guide. Learn how to grow your relationship stronger by re-exploring each others wants, needs and dreams.
Learn some of the best tips to help you overcome those hurdles that you may encounter on the way, so that nothing else will ever be able to stand in your way. Let us help you along the path of you and your partners happy ending story.
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Learn about different ways on how to function better with your current partner and keep the love between you alive by exploring some of our bonding activities / ideas for couples. Learn together about subjects like:
- Analyze Your Love Life and see the reality of it
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- A Healthier Relationship is Coming Your Way. Make a Plan!
- Self-Care is the Key for a Better Relationship
- Accept your partners support and support them
- Share Love and Fear; Work and Play
- Patience is the key
- Live and Stay in the Now
- Be Grateful for what you have
- Date Night and Couples bonding Ideas
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Romance is not just about a weekend away on your anniversary. It’s about sharing loving moments every day. The commitment to grow stronger together is not only made for the sake of the relationship, but more importantly to help couples find their individual self worth.
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